Saturday, June 30, 2012

Dan and Hannah Bike Prince Edward Island National Park, Canada


Tucked away on PEI, we wake to the quiet of the morning at the Green Willow Farm B and B, which is well-back from the main road but conveniently still in town.  In mid-June, PEI is for getting away and solitude, which is just about perfect for those over 60.  The small city of Summerside (14,000+) has all the amenities of a big town in the States (e.g., Staples, Wendy's, Subways), but the feel is small town with neighborhoods and the occasional small farm bracketing the Confederation Trail that runs through town.  Gas prices are set weekly by the province and the price this week is $1.22 per liter (i.e., Every gas station has the exact same price!).


Willow Green Farm breakfast hour is at 8A so we set our alarm for 630A and take an hour to walk in town.  It's a mere ten minutes to the Baywalk boardwalk along the harbor front.

Summerside, PEI Baywalk

It's quiet early and we have the boardwalk to ourselves.   Stepping into an Irving Gas Station with a sign for a "washroom," we find that term more descriptive than "bathroom."  Do I hear an Amen?

Early morning on Summerside Baywalk

Arriving to silence in the breakfast room of the B and B (there are two couples - a retired couple from the States and a mother and daughter from Alberta, Canada here on holiday (i.e. Canadian for vacation), Hannah is on a mission, her spasmodic dysphonia is no match for her will to fully engage everyone.  Finding out where they are from and their plans for the day, Hannah greases the conversation wheels this Tuesday morning.  Hannah is a B and B pro from 1986-1991 when she ran Hannah’s Loft Bed and Bread out of our house.  She’s “Oprah” who puts the guests at ease and brings out their stories.  As her sidekick this morning, I lay back but chime in to redirect the conversation to the ones who haven’t had their voices heard.   Today we have juice, coffee, fruit cocktail, cake-y pancakes topped with bananas.  Raisin Brain and Rice Krispies are there for me to fill out my meal. 

After breakfast we buy our petrol for 1.22 per liter and pay $49 to fill our pint size Hyundai Elantra and purchase our beloved Subway sandwiches for our bike ride at PEI National Park.  Later we learn our credit card is docked a “foreign transaction fee” every time we use our card.   It’s a small price to pay for not carrying lots of cash or Traveler’s Cheques (Does anyone use Traveler’s Cheques anymore?  Do people under 40 even know what they are?)  Winding up and down country roads we arrive 45 minutes later at Brackley Beach on the north shore of the island.  

To our surprise, we find no one is at the toll gate to take our money.  Alas, it is mid-June and for PEI that is preseason.  We pocket the $7.80 per person and plan to invest it in a 529 college savings plan for our grandchildren’s college fund.  This midday there are not ten cars in the parking lot; in just two weeks, when schools let out and the season starts, we hear that the lot and the Brackley Beach will be teeming with families.   

Boardwalk to Brackley Beach
Today it's retired folk and mothers with young children who are able to take advantage of this preseason at  Prince Edward Island National Park.

Brackley Beach

Along the Gulf of St. Lawrence on paved bike trails that are set apart from the road, we take the Gulf Shore Way from Brackley Beach to Dalvay Pond, a distance of 10 kilometres.   

Covehead Lighthouse in the Distance
With the beach 50 to 250 metres to our right, we ride on the white lined divided bike path parallel to the road past sand dunes, beaches, fresh water ponds, forests, and salt marshes.

Bike path to Dalvay
This 10 km multi-use trail is ideal for biking, rollerblading, walking, running, and even pushing a stroller.  In the twenty kilometres (12+ miles) of extrememely level trail there and back we don't pass ten people.  It is the kind of solitude that we find in the northern Rockies of Wyoming and Montana as well as the northern Arizona plateaus and southern Utah national parks that we frequent.  Riding into the wind side by side, we talk and talk some more.  While riding, Hannah says, I love Canada.  I can see why.  We feel unencumbered and welcomed, relaxed and without an agenda.  Retired, we have the gift of time that we didn't have, or more accurately, didn't take when we were raising kids and earning a living.  We just have the time not to hurry back or get to the "to do" list.  The "to do" list can run the show when we are home in our need to be productive.  Not so on PEI.

Our zeal to be elite at what we did and do, be it parenting, teaching, or hairdressing, comes with a price.

Dalvay Park Entrance

Dalvay Pond across to Dalvay House
The ocean water is pleasing to the touch, nothing like the stinging cold of southern Maine where we live.  And yet we are some 500 miles north of York!    Thank you, Gulf Stream!




Riding back to Brackley Beach, the trail is just as level on the way back (who’d a thunk it!) and easy to catch a conversation rhythm.  In a relaxed, but enthusiastic one hour and forty minutes we are back at the picnic tables at Brackley Beach with just one other couple.  

In this summer preseason, it’s as if we have the island to ourselves.  Reading Ann of Green Gables (which has sold more than 50 million copies since its publication in 1908) to our kids prior to our last visit in 1991 got us here.  Any tourist-y hubbub in nearby Cavendish of the Anne phenomenon is still two weeks away.  The Anne of Green Gables series is timeless and pleasing to read.  (New parents please note – Read books to your kids that you like as well because kids regularly want to hear the same book read again and again and again.)

Then we load our bikes back on our rear mounting bike rack and drive 16 kilometres to the non-contiguous part of the PEI National Park to the west.  (By the way, we have an excellent bike rack.  It’s a Saris Bones 2 – Bike.)  Near the North Rustico entrance to PEI National Park, we take the Gulf Shore Way West.  Again, no fee for this separate entrance (maybe 15 kms from the Brackley Beach part of the park.) because it’s preseason. 

These are the red cliffs of PEI with beaches few and far between. 

Red cliffs of PEI National Park
In very proper English, the signs on the cliffs suggest “Prudence.”  Different from our morning ride with empty beaches to our right, we climb and descend on the bike trail for more of a workout.



After 8.5 kilometres of paved trail that skirts the red sandstone cliffs of the Gulf of St. Lawrence, we hit the forested trails of the Cavendish Beach Trail, our favorite part of the trail.  These crushed gravel or wood chip paths take us through the forest. 



Sunlight filters through the sugar maples, yellow birch, and eastern white pine, and we meander here and there beneath overhanging branches.  We’ve gone some 40+ kilometres today and I can’t imagine cross-country biking 100+ kilometres day after day after ever-loving day!  Can you say, “ADHD?" 

Heading for the parking lot nearly six miles away, it all seems downhill from the Cavendish Beach area, but it is not as we up and down it to our waiting car.  Perhaps, it’s just that we always seem to go faster coming home because we smell the barn.   It’s another hour and a half plus easy ride through Canadian paradise.

Saris Bike Rack at Red Cliffs of PEI 

The take away from this blog:  Go to PEI before the season in May or the first part of June.

Monday, June 25, 2012

Molly and Tip Baby Bracket Update (The Top Twenty-Five)



Your top 25 after the first two rounds of the Baby Rawding Bracket

1. 43 points: Karen & Kalle  (Maine)

2. 37 points: Ann Jacob (Virginia)

3. 33 points: Bill Buggie (Canada)

4. 32 points: Rose & Mike (California)

5. 30 points: 
         Pauline Peyser and Paula (New Hampshire)
         Regina Manville (Virginia)
         Cindy McMullen (New Hampshire)

8. 29 points:
         Ruthie Lasher (Virginia)
         Bria Suprenant (Massachusetts)
         Dan Rothermel (Maine)
         Karen Lynge (Maine)

12. 28 points: Amelia Kyker (Virginia)

13. 27 points:
         Paige Bordthauser (Virginia)
         Robyn Rothermel (New York
         Corky Thomson (Maine)

16. 26 points:
         MScott Berkowitz (Virginia)
         Carol Scott (New Hampshire)
         Sheri Garrity (New Hampshire)

19. 25 points:
         Derby Family (Maine)
         Jordan and Cora (New Hampshire)
         Deb Howe (Maine)
         Tanya Garrity (New Hampshire)
         Rebecca Kraai (Maine)
         Gail Berneike (Maine)
         Hannah Rothermel (Maine)


1 point per correct answer in the first round; 2 points per correct answer in second round. 

We're down to the Sweet Sixteen (eight+ boys names and eight + girls names)


Boys Names:
Harrison
Nolan
Owen
Archer
Levi
Alexander
Benjamin
Quincy/write-in

Girls Names:
Julia
Rachel
Sophie
Brenda
Polly
Olivia
Amelia
Rebecca/write-in



Baby Bracket Parenting Advice

You two are the foundation – Strong, happy, loving couples lead to strong, happy, loving kids.  Kiss whenever you have her/his face near yours…talk a lot and don’t always try to be right, being right matters less than you might think.  Be generous whenever you can.

Teach your child the simpler things in life like saying “Please” and “Thank You,” calling their aunts and uncles Aunt So and So or Uncle So and So.  Always send a thank you note after receiving something (present, money, etc.) from others.

Always have enough food to share with friends and family whenever they drop by.  Stay in touch with family and friends.  Be fair to all. 

Don’t just do something – Sit there.  One bit of advice that served us well is around the dinner hour as kids grow up.  Our house rule was to never have difficult discussions at the dinner table.  Always create family dinner time and only leave the table after the kids do.  Even when I was anxious to get up and clear the table, we sat as long as our children chose to be there.  We still do today when young adults visit.

1. Be your child's 'best parent', not their 'best friend'.
2. From day one always make 'Molly and Tip Time' a priority.  (It will help with #1)

Spend all the time you can with them, they leave home all too soon.
Try to become as involved as you can with your kids’ schools, not just the “extra” events, but the day-to-day things, as well.  In this day & age, the teachers will appreciate it, too!   Don’t just “talk” to your children – LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN!!!

Advice for Molly and Tip:  RELAX and ENJOY!!  Advice to Nana and Grandpa:  RELAX and ENJOY

Children learn by example. Parents need to set a good example. Do what I say, not what I do doesn't work. Children will do what you do, not what you say!

Savor each moment, but don't hover!  All of us need to fall down so we can gain the strength of knowing we can get up again.

Love me, don’t judge me.

          Enjoy the stage you’re at; all stages have their challenges and rewards.

Trust your instinct (intuition) – you know your child and you are wiser than you realize.

So I say - help them be in touch with their feelings. They rule. If they are in touch with their feelings and lean in the direction of what feels good, they will be closer to seeking joy.  Instead of asking what the score was? Ask How they did and how they felt?  Simple. 

And have pets--lots of pets! 

Molly and Tip, don't forget to care for yourselves individually, too--as well as finding couple-time. It's so incredibly important to replenish yourselves!

Savor each moment, but don't hover!  All of us need to fall down so we can gain the strength of knowing we can get up again.

Be outside as much as possible to show and feel the connection of human and nature, to breathe fresh air, to feel cold and hot, to see the cycles of days and seasons, the unpredictable and uncontrollable forces we are given.

Hold them in your arms whenever they need you. Hug them often, be a good listener, and enjoy them. And of course bring them to grandma and grandpa's house often!

Spend a lot of time reading children’s books with the kids.  Spend time taking little trips, and spending lots of time outdoors, hiking and camping, and whatnot.  Nature and exercise have a calming effect on all of us, and exploring new places is such a great way to have fun together.



Saturday, June 23, 2012

Dan and Hannah Make the Big Drive to Summerside, Prince Edward Island, Canada


On Hannah’s bucket list is visiting Prince Edward Island, Canada to celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary.  Ergo, we awake at 4A in early June in anticipation of our 570 miles of driving through a good chunk of Maine and most of New Brunswick, Canada to PEI.  (The name of Prince Edward Island was adopted in 1799 to honor then Prince Edward – the father of Queen Victoria.  Edward was born to King George III, who was best known for losing the Thirteen American colonies during the American Revolution of 1776 and for a tenuous grip on sanity in his later life.)  Our theory on getting to distant places is to drive one monstrously long day, then have multiple days at our destination with little or no driving.  Though a distance greater than going from York, Maine to northern Virginia, which we would do to see our daughter Molly and her husband Tip, our travel today is on the wide open road with none of the congestion and traffic of that southbound journey.     

Two hours in, we change drivers in Newport, Maine, halfway to the US/Canadian border at Houlton, Maine.  Gassing up for $3.49 per gallon, we wonder how gas companies can transport gas 150 miles inland and charge 17 cents per gallon less here than in York.  North of Orono, Maine, the speed limit has recently been changed to a Rocky Mountain West 75 mph.  

On I-95 north of Orono, Maine

At Houlton, gas is 20 cents more per gallon at $3.69, but it beats the $1.22 per liter price in Canada (to compare liters to gallons multiple by 4 subtract 9, divide by 5 and add 32. [I may be confusing this with going from Fahrenheit to Centigrade]).  At the border, the Canadian border patrol agent is smiling, which will be a theme throughout our stay in Canada.  Ever polite and courteous, he wants to know about alcohol, fruit, presents over $60, and how long we are staying.  We banter as Hannah mentions it’s our 40th anniversary; he chimes in that he’s been married sixteen years and sends us on our merry way. 


Canadian Border Station, Woodstock, New Brunswick

Crossing the border, we enter the visitor center at Woodstock, New Brunswick and get smacked by the ever-pleasant Canadian stereotype again.  Two delightful, engaging, and, yes, smiling women answer our questions about biking in the province.  Throughout our time in Canada, Canadians seem to say hello first with a smile; stop their vehicles at crosswalks for us to cross without glaring or tapping their foot; and just seem like they enjoy life. 

Returning to our four-door Hyundai Elantra, we motor down Route 2 through New Brunswick, a bilingual province, for the next four hours.  Highway signs have both the English (roads and exits) as well as the French (chemins and sorties).  Mileage is in kilometres, which as any mathematician knows means you travel less distance than you do when measured in miles.   It’s a fact.  Look it up.  On four lane highways, we cruise by Moncton and then Sackville with literally no one on the road.  I exaggerate only slightly, but there are not 20 cars all day on this June 11th.  Okay I continue with the hyperbole, but there are very few cars.  At Sackville, we hit two-lane Route 16, but in these pre-summer season days we sail along at 65 on country roads with few restaurants, gas stations, and motels.  All the better to make good time.

Approaching the 8 mile Confederation Bridge from New Brunswick to PEI, I have no hydro-gephyrophobia (fear of crossing bridges over water) as I did when crossing the Seven Mile Bridge in the Florida Keys.  I think it’s because there are 3-4 foot concrete walls blocking the view to the immediate sea below.  There are ample lanes for bicylces to cross, but we don’t see any.  Back in 1991 when we took our kids to PEI; at the time there was a ferry from Cape Tormentine, NB to Borden-Carleton, PEI.  We now cross the Northumberland Strait in less than ten minutes and will pay $44.25 for the privilege/opportunity to cross the bridge when we leave the Island.

 


Confederation Bridge from Borden-Carlton, PEI


Consciously choosing to stay in Summerside, the smaller of the two island cities, we are a mere 39 kilometers from our destination.  We settle on the Willow Green Farm there as our B and B of choice.

Ironically, though Hannah ran a B and B out of our house on Chases Pond Road from 1987-1991, we have only once previously stayed in a B and B.  Basically, we figured they were too expensive.  Not so in the preseason of a PEI summer.   At Willow Green Farm, we have a queen room with a private bath with a sitting area with two comfortable chairs for $70 per night.  If we stay three nights, the bill is $160, including daily morning breakfasts.  Of course, we will stay three nights.  The Quality Inn directly across the street costs $114 per night.  With no TV, the room won’t feed my hyper-connected disorder to know what is on ESPN Sports Center at any time of the day and night. 

Settled in, we sit on a private deck, noshing on apple slices, baby carrots, and cheese and crackers looking out to shaded barn from the turn of the century and the family-size hayfields.  Nourished, we head at 530P for the Confederation Trail immediately behind our B and B.


Confederation Trail in Summerside, PEI

From one end of the island to the other, this 273 kilometre former railroad is now a trail of crushed red stone that goes through Summerside neighborhoods and allows for a lazy evening ride.  Once in town, we find the 6.5 kilometre Baywalk along the water for our biking pleasure. 


Boardwalk of the 6.5 km Baywalk Trail

Though we are before the season, Edwardians (my guess at how they refer to themselves) are out taking an evening walk or or having some quality family time.  

Baywalk Boardwalk & Companion Paved Bike Path

After, in rocking chairs on the front deck of the Willow Green Farm, we end the evening with a fine Malbec.  Hannah and I have hit vacation gold.

Saturday, June 16, 2012

Dan and Hannah Hike the Appalachian Trail in Maryland



We’ve not found a better place to hike the AT than Maryland.  The trails are easy on the feet without the insane inclines that we find in VT, NH, and ME.  We can catch a good hiking rhythm that allows for random and multiple topics of conversation.  The Maryland AT is both near and far.  We are less than 60 miles from Washington, DC and yet in an out-of-the-way location where nature’s quiet is our amphitheater. 

Leaving suburban Vienna, VA during the rush hour, we go against the incoming morning commute by taking I-495 west, then north on I-270.  We head past Frederick, MD to the sleepy town of Middletown on this cold and dank late April morning.  It’s 44 degrees in the mountains and overcast.  Dressed in pants and sweatshirts, I can’t imagine sleeping out in this cold and wet overnight like AT hikers do, day in and day out.  To repeat, we are fairweather hikers.  As Plato said, Know thyself.

After climbing Route US Alternate 40, we turn right and enter Washington Monument State Park



Though chilly, the early morning has a spring green innocence and birds chirping welcome us to the AT.  With my Diamond Back trekking sticks, I look forward to another gentle ridge line hike through Maryland.  (See blog from November 26, 2011 for a previous AT hike in Maryland to the Ed Garvey Shelter hike.)  

You always knew she was a tree hugger.

The trail leads south towards Harper’s Ferry, WV in an easy descending path of dirt, roots, and leaves. 



Wondering whether we would meet any thru-hikers (those hikers who walk the 2179 miles of the Appalachian Trail from Georgia to Maine or Maine to Georgia in one calendar year) this early in the season, we soon meet Ti Bhu (his trail name, given by his guru from India) who turns out to be 35th hiker heading north from Georgia.  Thru-hikers check in at the Appalachian Trail Conference center on Washington Street in Harper’s Ferry, WV, get their picture taken for the thru-hikers wall, and are counted as they head north.  A former marathon runner who gained 30 pounds to hike the entire AT, Ti Bhu has traveled 1,032 miles in 48 days from Springer Mountain in Georgia.  (My Appalachian Trail Thru-Hikers Companion gives me the precise mileage.)  Having already lost 25 pounds, he’s just been through last week’s 12 inch snow in Virginia and is roaring through the AT at 20+ miles per day.  As your faithful reporter, I blew it by forgetting to ask him why he’s hiking the AT!


Across the Maryland valley near alternate Route 40

In minutes, on this easy up and down trail, I get the chance to redeem myself as we meet John who has not yet taken a trail name.  Not wanting to miss my “go to” question, I ask him why he is hiking the AT.  His response is why not?  I can’t believe it.  I think:     
   
Why not?  Is that all you got!  Nothing cosmic or life changing?  Why not?   Really, why not?  You are telling me that “why not?” motivates you to sleep in wet clothes, endure the snoring of others in shelters, eat the same Spaghetti-O’s and granola day after day, and endure the tedium of swearing you’ve seen these same trees and this same trail every day for the last month!  Really!  Maybe I should have given him some multiple choice options!  A. To find myself?   B. To mend a broken heart?  C. To avoid getting a real job?  D. To challenge myself physically and mentally since I’ve taken the easy way out my entire life?  E. To meet women?  I’m guessing it’s E.




After trying a few trail names for myself (e.g., Flagstaff for my affinity for my Arizona experience and hiking in the West), I found none of them felt right.  And then 2600 fell into my lap thanks to our son Will.   Let me explain, I have been taken by my phone camera as a means of recording our travels.  At the Verizon store, I picked up a $20 mini-disk to insert in my camera phone that allows me to store 2600 pictures.  2600!  I can indiscriminately snap all day.  And perhaps, I have reminded our kids a little too often of the joy of being able to take 2600 pictures.  They smile, snicker, and I have a trail name!  By the way, Hannah's trail name is Two-ply.




The conversation is enjoyable with Hannah as we are on last full day of our six day seeing-Molly-and-Tip vacation.  We hike a mile from the Washington Monument State Park across Route US Alternate 40, past the Dahlgren Backpacker’s Campground, pass Fox’s Gap, and head to the Rocky Run Shelter.  Warming up nicely on this still chilly morning, we arrive at our destination, the brand spanking new Rocky Run Shelter, ninety minutes later. 

Rocky Run Shelter on the AT

With a picnic table on the 8’ x 12’ deck, the shelter has a loft that sleeps 20 and a privy some 200 feet away.  There I pee into wood shavings which soak up the urine.  I’m guessing that’s a little too much information.   Sorry. 

Privy behind the Rocky Run shelter

No one is about and we enjoy our peanut butter sandwiches and apple slices pleased that we are back on the AT once again.  We check out the trail register which is in each shelter.  The comments include “extremely nice shelter” and “beautiful shelter.”   It’s early in the season and the poets have yet to arrive at the Rocky Run shelter. 


2600 on the AT

As we head for home, we meet Rambo, a 17 year old high school kid who graduated early in December so he could hike the AT.  Why is he hiking the trail?  It’s a family thing.  He used to do it with his Mom and in fact she hiked with him just yesterday and brought him some supplies as he took a zero day.  (A zero day on the AT is when hikers head into town to rest, recuperate, or meet friends and don’t hike on the trail at all.)  Though a couple miles behind Ti Bhu on the AT due to his zero days, he was 21st through Harpers Ferry.  He favors peanut butter Snickers and Oreos and has lost 20 pounds so far.  His plan is to return for his high school graduation by June 15th.  That means he has 1,150 miles to go to reach Mount Katahdin in Maine in six weeks.  Bless the young, their drive and their bionic legs!  While many hikers begin the AT with packs of an unsustainable 55-60 pounds, they soon shoot for 35-40 pound packs; Rambo’s is 20 pounds.  And the trail name?  He began the hike with a 9-pound Rambo knife that he no longer carries.

Returning to Washington Monument State Park, we complete the eight miles of hiking in less than four hours, throwing in time to talk up thru-hikers and have a relaxed lunch.
Upon our return we drive a half mile into the Washington Monument State Park to see the first Washington Monument. 

The first Washington Monument (1827)



Just another fabulous hike in the great state of Maryland. 

I look forward to returning to Maryland in the fall for the wedding of my fabulous nephew Jon and his equally wonderful bride Lauren.

Saturday, June 9, 2012

Dan and Hannah Bike the Potomac River Trail to Washington, DC



It should come as no surprise that Hannah and I think an excellent day on vacation is one where we exercise for three to four hours.   After a hike to Great Falls, Maryland (see May 12, 2012 blog), today we hit the bike trail along the Potomac River in Virginia.  Near the river in Old Town Alexandria, VA, we find Bike and Roll just off the downtown, a little before 11A in late April. 

Bike and Roll, Alexandria, VA
Fitted for 21-speed hybrid bicycles, we have two wheelers which for the first time in our bike rental history (which includes Key West, FL, Hilton Head, SC, and Bozeman, MT [cue my shameless name dropping) are bikes comparable to the ones we have at home. (They prove to be the best bikes we’ve ever rented!)  They’ve a pouch in the front for lunch and a rack in the back with a lock and helmet, too.  It's $14 for two hours and $7 for each additional hour.  All quite reasonable.  Our bicycling partners/guides for the day are our very much pregnant daughter Molly and her husband Tip. 

From Bike and Roll, we bike and roll to the nearby Mount Vernon Trail along the Potomac.  The trail heads south to George Washington’s Mount Vernon, but today we head north through Alexandria and Arlington to the Memorial Bridge, the gateway to the Lincoln Memorial.

Mount Vernon Trail on the Potomac River

On this near 70 degree day the trail is busy.  No two ways about it, but it’s not an insanely crowded busy, more a weaving-in-and-out kind of busy.  Many times we ride single file, by ball fields and views to our right over the river into Washington city itself.


Washington Monument from Virginia

There’s a wake-up from winter, springtime party feel to the day.  Families are bicycling together and picnicking by the river.  An organized wiffle ball league is in the background for our first water stop.




The level trail meanders along the river so it meets the needs of feral high-speed bicyclists as well as soccer moms and dads with kids.  A bell is a must on this trail.  The George Washington Memorial Parkway is to our right as we pass Reagan International Airport with views of the city.




We are fortunate to have the time and the money to travel to Virginia and beyond to be a part of the lives of our children, Molly, Robyn, Will, and Tip as well as travel to hike throughout the United States.  As parents, Hannah and I always thought money spent on experiences with the kids was money well-spent.  Hiking and camping in the Rocky Mountains provides us all with lifetime memories; perhaps that's part of the reason why the kids don’t think that the world is such a dangerous place.  The flip side is that they have found other places to live than York, Maine.

Driving the 500+ mile drive from Maine to Virginia through the Northeast megalopolis or flying with the hassle of the TSA inspections and cramped quarters are small inconveniences for the experiences and connections we make with family and friends throughout this country.   

Meandering on, we four cross the Memorial Bridge which takes us quite conveniently to the Memorials in Washington proper. 


Memorial Bridge

Lincoln Memorial

Just over the bridge is the Lincoln Memorial with its truly inspiring majesty that reminds me of the blessed life I  have.  I’ve had the opportunity to follow my dreams, including having married a lottery pick.  I paraphrase my brother Richard when he says that life is not  always fair—and we must not forget we are among the very fortunate.   Many of us our lucky to be born and live in America.  Consider:

If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, 
and spare change in a dish some place,
you are among the top 8% of the world's most wealthy.

Regardless of where you live,
if you can read and you have a pair of shoes,
a change of underwear and can choose from two or more foods to eat,
you belong to the top 10 per cent of the world's most wealthy.


We picnic in the shadows of the Lincoln Memorial on Molly-made sandwiches, apples, and carrots.


Molly, Dad, and Mom

Ready for an afternoon nap on the couch or in chairs back at Molly and Tip’s place, we double time it, single-file back to Old Town Alexandria.  We return our rented hybrid bikes back to Bike and Roll just as the bell tolls three hours. 

Life is good.